What the hell is chemistry, and what does it mean to you?
(A) the science that deals with the composition and properties of substances and various elementary forms of matter.
(B) chemical properties, reactions, phenomena, etc.
(C) the interaction of one personality with another
(D) any or all of the elements that make up something
All these are definitions taken from a dictionary. Imagine adding too much baking soda to water and the effervescence overflows; then simmers down, add more, and it comes up again... add too little water to the baking soda, almost nothing happens except that little bit of effervescence. Put a mentos into some coke and you get a huge explosion.
What has this got to do with relationships though? Perhaps say the man is the baking soda, and the woman, the water. Or whichever way it is, love is the effervescence which increases, simmers then increases again when one gives more love again. It's a little like a roller coaster, but one worth riding on, much better than a monotonous relationship with no excitement. What a bore.
However, when one is a mentos; sweet and yummy and the other, coca cola; cool and refreshing. What a candy dandy combination? Guess not.
I'd rather be the water or baking soda.
Some people may think they have the chemistry for each other. Unfortunately, it isn't always the case. Some cause explosions, some create a beautiful colour of a solution, some are right combinations, some wrong and some with residue which I'd like to think as problems unresolved.
When I told my dad about the partner I adored, he didn't see the compatibility because I didn't seem to usually date such partners. He wasn't condemning my choice, just wondering what is so special about this person is to steal his precious baby's heart. When I told dad, the chemistry is there strong, and when he heard that, he gave me the go-ahead and encouraged me to make it work.
When it failed, dad lovingly explained to me that having chemistry didn't exactly mean the good kind of chemistry. It could be the baking soda and water or the mentos and coke. What went wrong though? Chemical reactions are hard to predict. Given different quantities of different elements, it could be a great and successful combination; it's the same difference for the opposite. However, if one forces one element to react with another could either create a desirable combination; or an explosion waiting to happen.
What kind of relationships are good chemical combinations? Beats me... I'll reveal it when I know. Except for now, the suspected planned mentos and coke explosion took me by surprise but what wasn't surprising was all the residue left.
Both chemicals can be of such different characteristics but combine to result in something useful, whilst chemicals of similar characteristics combine to be disasters. The possibilities are endless, but the methophric explanation is as true as it gets with the relationship between men and women.
2 people who meet and fall in love is also known as 'chemistry'. How often have I heard my friends tell me all about the chemistry between them and their boyfriends and I know what they mean straight away, but when they do breakup, it became a chemical reaction gone wrong... may it be an explosion from the mixing of different chemicals or just the different quantity of each.
Whatever the case, chemistry between 2 people are still essential to build a strong relationship; as long as the explosion ain't as great as to destroy the people around and love you.
(A) the science that deals with the composition and properties of substances and various elementary forms of matter.
(B) chemical properties, reactions, phenomena, etc.
(C) the interaction of one personality with another
(D) any or all of the elements that make up something
All these are definitions taken from a dictionary. Imagine adding too much baking soda to water and the effervescence overflows; then simmers down, add more, and it comes up again... add too little water to the baking soda, almost nothing happens except that little bit of effervescence. Put a mentos into some coke and you get a huge explosion.
What has this got to do with relationships though? Perhaps say the man is the baking soda, and the woman, the water. Or whichever way it is, love is the effervescence which increases, simmers then increases again when one gives more love again. It's a little like a roller coaster, but one worth riding on, much better than a monotonous relationship with no excitement. What a bore.
However, when one is a mentos; sweet and yummy and the other, coca cola; cool and refreshing. What a candy dandy combination? Guess not.
I'd rather be the water or baking soda.
Some people may think they have the chemistry for each other. Unfortunately, it isn't always the case. Some cause explosions, some create a beautiful colour of a solution, some are right combinations, some wrong and some with residue which I'd like to think as problems unresolved.
When I told my dad about the partner I adored, he didn't see the compatibility because I didn't seem to usually date such partners. He wasn't condemning my choice, just wondering what is so special about this person is to steal his precious baby's heart. When I told dad, the chemistry is there strong, and when he heard that, he gave me the go-ahead and encouraged me to make it work.
When it failed, dad lovingly explained to me that having chemistry didn't exactly mean the good kind of chemistry. It could be the baking soda and water or the mentos and coke. What went wrong though? Chemical reactions are hard to predict. Given different quantities of different elements, it could be a great and successful combination; it's the same difference for the opposite. However, if one forces one element to react with another could either create a desirable combination; or an explosion waiting to happen.
What kind of relationships are good chemical combinations? Beats me... I'll reveal it when I know. Except for now, the suspected planned mentos and coke explosion took me by surprise but what wasn't surprising was all the residue left.
Both chemicals can be of such different characteristics but combine to result in something useful, whilst chemicals of similar characteristics combine to be disasters. The possibilities are endless, but the methophric explanation is as true as it gets with the relationship between men and women.
2 people who meet and fall in love is also known as 'chemistry'. How often have I heard my friends tell me all about the chemistry between them and their boyfriends and I know what they mean straight away, but when they do breakup, it became a chemical reaction gone wrong... may it be an explosion from the mixing of different chemicals or just the different quantity of each.
Whatever the case, chemistry between 2 people are still essential to build a strong relationship; as long as the explosion ain't as great as to destroy the people around and love you.
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